W now back in touch with a very close friend after a misunderstanding about 6months ago! So happy as it gives him a mate to do the usual matey stuff with, they are on the same mental wavelength, not sure if that's a good or bad thing really, at least it's bought him out of his dark mood.
Cooked them both a meal tonight, just like old times laughing and joking around the table.
All good between the two of us.
Had a good old chat during Sunday lunch, we both shed a few tears but it does clear the air between us.
W sounded like he had a sore throat but he said it wasn't sore. This had not got any better or worse. During our heart to heart chat W did tell me that he had been on the trans forums and his voice was breaking. W did say he felt concerned for me as he didn't want to be in my face, so was avoiding chatting to me. I soon put that right and he hasn't shut up since! The next injection appointment is just around the corner.
Had a conversation with a colleague today, her husbands manager has informed the staff that a young lady that is employed there will now be classed as a male, using the gents and being referred to as male etc. (W knows the man). The manager did tell them about the gender rules and they had to accept it, some unhappy blokes there! It's a tough old world...Good luck to him! Once again it highlights the prejudices that my W is going to be dealing with.
Benidorm booked now.
Hope W copes ok as he has avoided holidays abroad for a couple of years, it shouldn't be that hot where he will pass out wearing his binder under clothes, only going for 3days.
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