Not posted anything for a while...Everything is going extremely well, I've got two very handsome young boys.
W should have gone to Charing Cross last week for his second appointment but had to postpone as he is still waiting for pay day, just waiting for a new appointment now. I did offer to lend him some but he refused, he feels very narked about having to go through this whole 'tell me about yourself ' process for the umpteenth time.
W has been looking around local garages to part ex his car. I went with him last week and we were in a garage very close to where his grandad lives. It was going through my mind that if grandad drove past and saw W's bright yellow car he would stop to see him, W has avoided visiting him for a while now, he does ring him to see if he is OK.
I mentioned my concern to W as it would be a very embarrassing situation, W has very dark facial hair and of course his voice is quite deep.
After our chat W suggested that he could send him a letter, this is not the coward's way out but W would be devastated if he disowned him.
So W asked if I could put a letter together for him as he was finding it very difficult.
We put a letter together, very basic explaining that he finds it hard to tell him to his face, also how his dad has disowned him and he hopes he doesn't. We mentioned that he had had medical help etc and he was now living as a man. We finished the letter by saying that I was supporting him and Matt was fine about it all too and he hoped he would give him the chance to talk to him and explain it more in depth. W said he would ring him in a couple of days.
I agreed to push it through the door, easier said than done, whenever the boys ring him he's hardly ever at home...I made 5 journeys to push it through each time he was at home. To get to his door you have to walk up the front garden steps and then directly past his sitting room window so I would have been seen. He has not spoken to me since I left his son 12 years ago and I didn't want to create anymore conflict, he would have been on the phone straight away to W's dad and then he would have been ringing me and telling me to keep of his dad's property, mmm lovely family!!
Today I had a brainwave, I asked my nephew to push it through, grandad would have thought it was a kid posting leaflets if he saw him, so now the deed has been done, we'll sit back and wait for the fireworks or the happy ending!
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