Had a couple of odd conversations recently...
Spoke with my nephews other half who I have only met a couple of times. Conversation got onto children, she compared her son with her daughter and told me how different girls were. W was with me at the time and she said I was lucky to have two boys as girls are a handful!!
Second conversation exactly the same, again a comparison between sons and daughters.
I feel like shouting out 'Yes I know, I had a daughter for 19 years'.
Matt in a dilemma at the moment.
Matt has introduced W as his brother to his girlfriend and not said anything about the transition.
Confusion when they are with his dad. As dad refers to W as 'Rach'. This has happened a couple of times so his girlfriend has questioned it, wondering if he has a sister somewhere.
Matt brushed it off and told her it was a tale for some other time.
So, this weekend was the some other time!!
Matt's girlfriend had stayed over at his dads after spending the evening with me. As usual Matt is questioned about 'Rach'. Matt was asked again who was 'Rach', so he has explained briefly what W has chosen to do and exactly how is dad reacted, hence W not talked about.
Conversation went well and he still has a relationship!
Quite a difficult situation as W wants to be stealth, small world as a couple of more people now know and who do they know?
On the whole W is in a fantastic place at the moment, happy, bubbly and working his socks off at Uni.
I am really lucky and proud to have two beautiful, healthy children who are doing so well in life.
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