I had the most amazing Mother's day ever...
I guessed my two were up to something on the Saturday evening, I was banned from entering the spare room.
Matt was apologetic as he was marshaling at a motocross event in Stafford early Sunday morning and it would be late afternoon before he saw me, this was quite a change to the normal, as Mother's day just passes by and I don't see him at all. W then said that Matt would be joining us for a roast dinner, that really made my day. Matt had not had a Sunday lunch with us since he left in March 2004!
I received the most enormous bouquet of flowers and a word perfect card off them both. The three of us sat and enjoyed a roast dinner (prepped by me) we had a few giggles and banter everything felt so normal.
Such a big change from Mother's day last year. It's good to reflect we have come such a long way.
Friday, 23 March 2012
Wednesday, 14 March 2012
(45) 3rd one done!
W's Dr was able to administer the 3rd injection, it gives peace of mind as this appears to be the correct loading phase for Nebido.
Last weekend we went to visit my niece and her new baby, W and I don't see her that often so the changes which had occurred were very obvious. My niece commented on W's voice and his facial changes, he has put a little weight on and it shows in his face.
It's still difficult for me when I see W holding a baby as he has always been a natural with babies and young children. We had a conversation later about his girlfriend having a baby in the future, it's a long way off yet as neither of them are ready for that commitment, hopefully I'll have few years to get my head around this and also that W is never going to be a biological parent.
Has been quite a positive time for W, he is passed as male all of the time now, plus he answered the phone and was mistaken for Matt. He sure had a big smile on his face.
Odd conversation with his grandad too. W had been to see him and then went to put his shopping away, Grandad then asked, 'Where was Matt'? W said, 'He hasn't come with me'. Grandad very confused then said, 'He is I've just been talking to him'!
W is now wondering if he should tell Grandad, we know this is going back on what he thought would be for the best but the changes are taking place a whole lot quicker than we expected. W has spoken to Matt and asked if he does tell Grandad and he dis owns him, would he find the time to clean his house, W would still do his shopping it would just mean that Matt would have to take it and put it away.
It's lovely that I have 2 wonderful, caring children, they obviously don't take after their father!!
Matt appears to be looking a bit healthier, I am feeding him when he sees me, which has been every day for last few weeks.
Last weekend we went to visit my niece and her new baby, W and I don't see her that often so the changes which had occurred were very obvious. My niece commented on W's voice and his facial changes, he has put a little weight on and it shows in his face.
It's still difficult for me when I see W holding a baby as he has always been a natural with babies and young children. We had a conversation later about his girlfriend having a baby in the future, it's a long way off yet as neither of them are ready for that commitment, hopefully I'll have few years to get my head around this and also that W is never going to be a biological parent.
Has been quite a positive time for W, he is passed as male all of the time now, plus he answered the phone and was mistaken for Matt. He sure had a big smile on his face.
Odd conversation with his grandad too. W had been to see him and then went to put his shopping away, Grandad then asked, 'Where was Matt'? W said, 'He hasn't come with me'. Grandad very confused then said, 'He is I've just been talking to him'!
W is now wondering if he should tell Grandad, we know this is going back on what he thought would be for the best but the changes are taking place a whole lot quicker than we expected. W has spoken to Matt and asked if he does tell Grandad and he dis owns him, would he find the time to clean his house, W would still do his shopping it would just mean that Matt would have to take it and put it away.
It's lovely that I have 2 wonderful, caring children, they obviously don't take after their father!!
Matt appears to be looking a bit healthier, I am feeding him when he sees me, which has been every day for last few weeks.
Monday, 5 March 2012
(44) Injection 3
W received the letter from Charing Cross to state that another injection should be given at 18 weeks. All going to plan, was a little concerned that he may have a bleed if the hormone was not topped up, hopefully he has seen the last of them.
Just feel like we have gone behind Dr Richard Curtis's back as he had told him differently. We go back to his gender clinic at the beginning of April to have W's blood levels checked, if he asks we'll tell him!
Otherwise all going well.
Matt concerning me still. Matt had blood results and they picked up on low calcium levels, so he has to have another in a month, would help if he ate properly but as he is constantly arguing with his dad at the moment he doesn't feel like eating. His relationship with his dad is awful, hopefully he'll soon realise where he is better off, his room is ready!
Kids hey!
Just feel like we have gone behind Dr Richard Curtis's back as he had told him differently. We go back to his gender clinic at the beginning of April to have W's blood levels checked, if he asks we'll tell him!
Otherwise all going well.
Matt concerning me still. Matt had blood results and they picked up on low calcium levels, so he has to have another in a month, would help if he ate properly but as he is constantly arguing with his dad at the moment he doesn't feel like eating. His relationship with his dad is awful, hopefully he'll soon realise where he is better off, his room is ready!
Kids hey!
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